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For the Love of Mail

16th May 2008

For the Love of Mail

From the time my daughter was old enough to hold a crayon in her little hand, I’ve had her sending notes and cards to relatives. In this age of email and text messaging, the old fashioned type of snail mail can be easily forgotten, but I still think it’s touching to get a note or card in the mailbox, it’s so much more personal.

My daughter is now 12 and I have to tell you, she loves sending letters and cards through the mail almost as much as she loves receiving them in our mailbox. Whenever she receives a letter from a friend or relative, she will usually sit right down and write a note back. Since moving from Illinois, she’s been sending letters and small packages back and forth with her friends. Just before moving, she and a friend purchased a stuffed animal that they decided they would share. Each would have the animal for one month and then send it to the other. It’s been 12 months now and they’re still doing this. They include notes, candies, and little trinkets in the box with the stuffed animal and it’s fun to see what they think of when it’s their turn to mail it.

The one thing I’ve always instilled in my daughter is that not only is it nice to acknowledge people when they send you a note or letter, but it’s important to say “thank you” when they send a gift, no matter what the reason and no matter how big or small. I know that there are times when I’ve personally sent a gift and never heard anything from the recipient. It drives me nuts because I don’t know if they got it or maybe they got it and didn’t like it? I just can never understand why anyone wouldn’t say “thank you”.

I’ve always made it easy for my daughter too. She loves having personalized note cards and Thank you cards that reflect her own personality. She loves shopping in card shops and has found stationary online as well. We recently discovered these cards and found out that we can not only personalize the cards, but can have the return address printed right on the envelope.

My daughter just received a package in the mail yesterday from a friend of hers who moved to Pennsylvania. It was a belated birthday gift for her and a bag of dog biscuits for our puppy who will be having her own birthday next week. I thought that was so cute! Guess my daughter will be writing a note to her over the weekend.

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  1. 1 On May 16th, 2008, Crazy Working Mom said:

    You’re teaching your daughter a very good lesson! I love the teddy bear idea. I bet those girls enjoy the heck out of that teddy bear exchange! Very cool. :)

    Have a great weekend.

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  2. 2 On May 16th, 2008, lynne said:

    The stuffed animal exchange is really cute and they do have fun with it. They’ve even created a journal that goes back and forth between them as well. It’s a great way for them to stay in touch.

  3. 3 On May 16th, 2008, Zrii said:

    i agree, its way more getting a letter or something in the mail than via the internet. i guess its because hardly anyone sends letters n stuff through the mail these days… blame technology on that one!

  4. 4 On May 16th, 2008, Neena (NeenMachine) said:

    Such a good habit to instill at an early age! In a fast paced, electronic world etiquette often gets left behind.

    Neena (NeenMachine)’s last blog post..Kaboost Kids Booster

  5. 5 On May 16th, 2008, Karen said:

    That is so cool that T keeps in touch with her friends. I always love to receive notes in the mail. I hope you feel better tomorrow.

  6. 6 On May 16th, 2008, Ellen said:

    Lynne: I’m so impressed that you have instilled these great values with your daughter. So many young kids have not idea about send Thank You notes or even bothering to say Thank You. Recently I posted something about this same issue and you told me then that your daughter was very good with this. Good for both of you!!!

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  7. 7 On May 17th, 2008, Jenny said:

    Oh that’s so cute. :) I hope I can do this for my son.

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